My first love ◀ Sunday, June 23, 2013
The one you’ll never get over had everything right — the perfect body, the perfect mind. You’re convinced that the one you’ll never get over was perfect. You explain the break up with the one you’ll never get over in one of two ways: 1) You were the self-appointed inferior party in the relationship — “holding them back” or “not being able to handle them” — and justify the breakup with reasoning that you simply weren’t “good enough” for them; 2) you two were perfect together (untrue) and you can’t understand why the break-up happened. The universe conspired against you. The one you’ll never get over has likely moved on, and wishes you’d move on, too. The one you’ll never get over is always nice to you, but maybe in a sort of condescending way, which makes you kind of hate them, but love them anyway. If your ex is the one you’ll never get over, you’re in a bad position.